Slaves often wear a BDSM collar as a sign of submissiveness and ownership. The Master/Mistress may present the collar to their slave in a special ceremony in front of select friends or privately. To adopt the collar me position the slave kneels with their back straight and thighs spread. If the slave has long hair, they lift their locks out of the way to expose their neck. The Master/Mistress can then fasten the collar.